How did I grow my blog?

Wine, lots of wine. Preferably a light-bodied, unoaked Sauvignon Blanc from Marlborough, NZ.

OK, but how did I really grow my blog?

A few people have been asking me to answer this question via email and social media ever since I blogged about reaching 5,000 followers.

I’d like to reassure you that while that number looks impressive, there is no need to get jealous. My blog doesn’t actually attract high levels of organic traffic (from search engines). A large percentage of my views are made up of social traffic (from platforms like Twitter, Instagram and the WordPress Reader).

This means if I don’t put the leg work in, my stats begin to slide as my blog verges on the precipice of a supermassive black hole. For this reason, I spend most of my time and energy seeking out other WordPress bloggers and visiting their blogs. You may also find me trawling my favourite WordPress tags, #Publishing and #writing. Engagement is the name of the game, and I am very happy to participate.

Thinking back over the last two years, I think there are three main reasons why my blog has grown to where it is today (and this is very specific to ‘The Cat’s Write’, as you’ll see!):

The links that bind

I love making lists, which is why my very first blog post back in 2015 was a list of: 10 blogs writers should be following by new & upcoming authors. On second thought, don’t click on that link. Who knows what you’ll find at the other end. No really, don’t do it.

At the time of writing my first blog post, I had no clue my links would notify other WordPress bloggers that I had written a blog with them in it. I merely wanted to create a list that I could come back to time and again. I’ve since learned about the Blogroll widget (I’m still astounded at what a newbie I was!) I didn’t even know you could add ‘tags’ to your posts or that there was a search function associated with the WordPress reader.

When my first post went live, I was surprised by the amount of bloggers who came by to say ‘thanks for the shout out.’ It was an epiphany, without which, I could have gone months and months talking to only me, myself and the void!

Cats, so many cats

The second thing that I stumbled across purely by accident, (but which should have been blindingly obvious) is that cat gifs are hilarious and everyone f—ing loves them. After I wrote my first cat themed post back in 2016, my blog exploded with traffic for the first time ever. And to think it only had one cat gif in it. Just imagine the possibilities!!

It wasn’t long after that post that I decided to change the name of my blog to ‘The Cat’s Write’. Even today, my most popular post of all time is The nine main stereotypes of writers. Seems I’ll never be able to escape all the cats! (Funnily enough, since I wrote this, my top post has changed LOL). I’m not sure if anyone remembers that far back, but my blog used to be called ‘Coffee, Chocolate & Writing’. More LOLS.

My back has an itch

It took me a long time before I figured out that the saying ‘if you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours’, applies to blogging too. I always try to reply to every comment on my blog, and when I can, I reciprocate in kind. This has actually turned out to be one of my favourite hobbies. I’m slightly obsessed with reading other people’s blogs and getting a little sneak peek into their lives (I’m not a stalker, I promise).

Oh and most importantly, don’t forget that people can smell a faker from a mile away. Think of those ‘social media influencers’ who employ the follow/unfollow method. Do they think they can do it without anyone noticing? No, no they can’t. We will sniff them out every time. Employing a method like this won’t necessarily damage their stats and reputation, but it’s just not nice.

My non-expert conclusion

If you decide to become a blogger because you ‘want to be famous and all that’, your followers are gonna pick up on it and be turned off. They want someone real to talk to, not a social-climbing piranha.

Be genuine, and they will come.

And if you want tips from the ACTUAL pros, check this out: Ask the blogger: how did you get so many followers?

I really don’t think I deserve any of it: all the lovely, encouraging comments, all the helpful emails, all the views and likes and follows. I never intended to be a “blogger”, and yet here I am, throwing cat gifs at you as you sip your morning coffee/tea/vegan matcha latte.

cat throw.gif

Sorry, I just had to throw that one in there.

 

150 responses to “How did I grow my blog?”

  1. Safoorah Sayed Avatar
    Safoorah Sayed

    Short and sweet informative post❤️💯

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  2. […] once blogged about how I grew my blog and how I really got 6,000 followers (wow I blog about stats A LOT) and I have to concur with some […]

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  3. Nathan Walker Avatar

    Hi Milly, I have recently created my own blog channel – still new to the blogging world! Your article has inspired me loads, and I truly adore your channel. Keep up the wonderful work, looks amazing. 😀

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      That’s awesome!! Thanks so much and good luck with your blog!! p.s love the name

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  4. Andrew Green Avatar

    I’m pleased to have 1,000+ followers after 4 months (though counting Twitter and Facebook followers as they do feels like a bit of a cheat). I get the social interaction bit but I’m driving my wife barmy. Social media can take you over if you let it.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      WOW that is an amazing effort!! And yeah I can relate, blogging can really take over your life. My follow widget also counts my twitter followers too. So many people think I have 14,000 blog subscribers, I’m like nope, only 7,000 sorry! The rest is my twitter followers.

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  5. Nicculent Avatar

    I love this, I’ve been reading your blog for long and I actually tried these tips and finally hit my goal of 100 followers.It’s not a lot, but I’m so grateful for your blog.You’re beautiful,keep blogging<3

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you so much 🙂 That’s so awesome to hear about your 100 followers!! Yay!!!

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  6. Shilpa Avatar

    That is so true.. the best thing about blogging is to be able to interact with such a diverse pool of people!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Exactly! You hit the nail on the head 🙂

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  7. slec250 Avatar

    Thanks for following my blog Millie! You have some really insightful posts on here, cannot wait to read your future ones with or without cat gifs!! 🙂 🙂

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you Stephanie 🙂 🙂 I promise I’ll be doing a cat gif related post soon, I’m well overdue!

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  8. flipster13 Avatar

    Follow me on Instagram @flipster._

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Have done 🙂

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  9. Tomato Life Sauce Avatar
    Tomato Life Sauce

    I’m glad you enjoy New Zealand wine!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      I sure do, yes!! 🙂

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  10. Mummanopoly Avatar

    What a brilliant post! I’ve taken so much away. You’re helping the newbies more than I think you can imagine. Thank you 💋 – your journey is beaut!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you so much!! P.s I love newbies so much

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  11. […] the blogger: how did you get so many followers? and How did I grow my blog? over on her site The Cat’s Write. Similarly, Jenny in Neverland recently posted 25 Spring & Summer blog post ideas (several […]

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  12. Aslam Kakar Avatar

    Hi Milly, thanks for this insightful post and for stopping by at my blog.

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  13. Eyes Straight Ahead (Shell Vera) Avatar

    Thank you for this very honest look at what it takes to grow a blog. Very helpful post that I have schedule to share on FB in a few days. Thank you. ~Shell

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks so much for sharing!

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  14. Stacey McStationary Avatar
    Stacey McStationary

    Awesome post; thanks for the cat GIF at the end!

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  15. Reina Avatar

    I love love this, i especially like the social climbing part, i started blogging because i want to, i figured i can just put everything i write in one space and voila , thank you for this piece.

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  16. *Andrada Anitei* Avatar

    Loved it! Especially the “social climbing kind of blogger” part.

    Staying true to oneself should attract the appropriate audience 😉 I take quality over quantity. Always 😊

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  17. Kyla Spaulding Avatar
    Kyla Spaulding

    Haha I loved this! I have a cute black kitty and I LOVE cat gif’s too. Just followed you. 🙂

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    1. Stacey McStationary Avatar
      Stacey McStationary

      Right? The kitty loves that game; he keeps coming back for more!

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  18. hillphotos2009 Avatar

    Wine is what brought me here… ha ha ha! It took a lot of wine and tears for me to write 15. It’s good to see I’m not the only one that enjoys filling up her pink flamingo stem to start things flowing!

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  19. SeekingSammy Avatar
    SeekingSammy

    Really liked this post 🙂 i’m new to blogging but am happy if my readers find my posts genuinely interesting and fun!

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  20. stylestomakeyousmile Avatar

    Thanks for sharing! Love the cat gif story and idea 🙂 Also, love that you mentioned other bloggers and they responded to ya!

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  21. cinnamonbunsandroses Avatar

    Super helpful, we still don’t know 99.9% of how any of this works so every little bit helps 👍

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  22. jennadanderson Avatar

    After jumping around your blog, reading different posts, I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t need to blog for people, I need to blog for me! I’ve wanted to start for years and just recently picked it back up, but was so unsure if I should be offering some sort of “service”. I’m glad to hear most of the time, people just want to read true, genuine stuff, no matter the content.
    Thank you for what you do!

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  23. nealoreilly Avatar

    Thank you so much for the advice, and the follow! I’m so new to this that I feel like people can smell it on me, but I have to remind myself all the time that I am happy to have anyone reading my words and thoughts.
    You should know (as I’m sure you have already been told), that you are not just shouting into the void, that we are out here listening to you and taking note.

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  24. lorraineambers Avatar

    I love your cat gifs, it’s how I stumbled across your site. Now I follow you because your content is always entertaining and fresh. Keep up the good work!

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  25. regasssa Avatar

    I’m only here for the cat gif at the end. 😛

    Not really, haha. This is great content. I’m super shy about trying to pretend I’m good enough at anything enough for people to listen to me, but warm and friendly I can do. It’s so good to remember that there’s people behind the usernames!

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  26. study.addicted Avatar

    Really cool post! You seem pretty nice 😊

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  27. fabyawrites Avatar

    As u might know, m myself a newbie in blogging…so can u guide me on how to add ‘tags’ to one’s blog..

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  28. E.P. Avatar

    “Engagement is the name of the game, and I am very happy to participate.” LOL Seriously, it’s only as of late that I’m noticing such amazingly witty people on WordPress. Did I recently crawl out from under a rock? Seems to be the case.

    Anyway, thank you for posting this. It was more personalized than a lot of other lists out there on the same topic. The part where you said you had created a list of authors to follow for your own future reference – that resonated with me. The best posts (i.e., most viewed, most liked, etc.) on my blog seem to be from notes I’ve made on things for my own future reference. Gotta admit, kinda love how that works out.

    By golly, I think you’re on to something here. 😀 Ok, that’s enough dorkiness for the night. 🙂 Toodles!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you! I had so much fun sitting down and writing this. My thought pattern went like this… ‘So why do people REALLY come here?’ Insert long pause before earth-shattering revelation… ‘Oh… It’s for the cats.’

      LOL

      P.s I’m a classic dork too, nice to meet you!

      p.p.s thanks for pointing out that line, I thought it was a fantastic stroke of genius on my part

      p.p.p.s you probably already know that I tend to be sarcastic

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      1. A Dude Abikes Avatar

        My mom’s a big cat person. Well, not a huge person made out of cats. I don’t think. That would be odd. What would that make me? I digress. Anyway, I need to search for the cat blogs because I haven’t seen them. Are they invisible cats? Man, I should get to bed. Love what you’re about, Milly! A Dude Abikes

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  29. Herb Silverman Avatar

    Very useful! Thanks!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      You’re very welcome 🙂 Thanks for stopping by 🙂

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  30. Marianne Memoirs Avatar

    My…aren’t YOU the Ton’s-of Replys Queen 😉 But, well… you deserve it. A ‘must’ to follow being you told me just what I needed to hear. I started about the same time as you and you, well…’read my mind’. My heart wants to reach other people’s hearts with my memoir almost out (and hopefully their dear little wallets, too of course when it’s ready to sell) – Anyway, thanks.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Hahah thanks Marianne 🙂 🙂 I’ve been a bit slack replying as of late, sorry to have taken so long! You’re doing pretty well for followers it looks like 🙂

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  31. mynewsdrive Avatar

    Thanks Milly!
    Good piece of advice. 🙂

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  32. Julie Hutchings, Pretty Scary Author Avatar
    Julie Hutchings, Pretty Scary Author

    I love this! This is such real advice, from someone who has a very successful blog at least from my perspective, and the realities of what it takes to get there. I admire your commitment, and thanks for shooting straight.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Hey Julie! Thanks so much for your comment! 🙂

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  33. growingoldgreyfully Avatar

    Great advice, thank you 🤓

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  34. Mandi Em Avatar

    Great tips. I have been blogging for 10 months and struggle to get traffic. But recently I rebranded and have been focusing on community building. I think I’m going to enjoy your blog a lot gifs are my love language

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks for stopping by! How’s your blog going now (being 6 months down the track)?

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    2. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Your blog is looking amazing btw 🙂

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  35. lorraineambers Avatar

    Hi, I’ve nominated you for The Mystery Blogger Award. https://wp.me/p7FfMB-1B6 🙂

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks 🙂 🙂

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  36. Alexi Avatar

    Your posts are a ball of fun, I love them

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      1. Alexi Avatar

        Your welcome 🙂

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  37. Oluchi Avatar
    Oluchi

    Thanks for sharing… very helpful

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  38. Rahma Krambo Avatar
    Rahma Krambo

    Hi Millie. I decided to revive this blog even though it’s been lying dormant for two years. The main reason being the WordPress Reader which is such a fantastic feature. I posted just this morning and have two followers already, yours being the second one. I’m practically giddy that someone knows I exist in the blog world.
    Thanks for following me. You really made my day. Your posts are highly entertaining and informative.
    Cheers.

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  39. KrystalClearBlogs Avatar
    KrystalClearBlogs

    Yup! Suspicion confirmed! I love it!

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  40. Kato9lyves Avatar

    Thank you for this piece! As a newbie who went through a certain amount of anxiety with even the thought of putting my soul out there in a literary sense and worrying that after such a step no one would read it, this advice helps a lot!
    Thank you again 😊

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  41. cyclepromo Avatar

    Great article and yes everyone just loves cats but some people will not admit it. You are dead on regarding the lists thats given me an idea for another post which does help since I get writers block whenever I seat down to write something!

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  42. thedopehope Avatar

    Thankyou so much! This was of great help. https://wp.me/s9z1uq-stay
    https://wp.me/s9z1uq-ages
    Also, maybe im asking for too much lol but Ive just started blogging barely 2 days ago. It would really mean a lot, if you check out my blog and i’d really appriciate suggestions. Please let me know if you liked it and if its even worth it.

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  43. Abby Kingston Avatar

    Hi Milly. I appreciated this post so much. And all your blog posts for that matter. I’m an aspiring author too and I just started my own blog (like literally a few days ago). I didn’t have a clue what to do or where to start. But after I found your blog through Louise Allen’s Writers in the Attic I was totally inspired. I was thinking that I couldn’t really start an author’s blog if I wasn’t a published author. But your courage and openness made me realise that I totally can. Because getting the ‘tick of approval’ from a ‘real’ publishing house isn’t a prerequisite for sharing this amazing adventure. Which you do so well. So thank you. 🙂 🙂

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  44. Daryn Kirscht Avatar

    Insightful information! I love your approach. I think it only makes the WordPress community a better place to be a part of 👍🏻

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  45. #hhhigh Avatar

    I like that you said : be genuine and people come to you . In fact it is true. If I look to all my posts perhaps Icant find even one that actually was playing with words. I always give my inner best to others, cheer them up who they are , inspire them that makes me happy. And my main reason for opening the blog was not and is not gathering the crowd to hear what’s the life about . It was all about who they are in their creator . Their identities found in the things unseen.
    I am so glad at least you liked my one post _ ( what ever reason you came in ) .
    Although , I love to reach more followers because that help me to be closed to vision and mission _> to encourage the individual in whole globe.

    Everyone is welcome.

    http://www.hhhigh.wordpress.com

    Much LOVE
    Dariush Youkhaneh
    The Author of Serving the Living God.

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  46. CW Avatar

    Hello, nice blog you have! Thanks for following my blog @ http://www.sunflowerrosecw.wordpress.com ❤ Have a good week ahead x

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  47. briannamarielifestyle Avatar
    briannamarielifestyle

    Congrats on all the followers! That’s awesome 🙂
    http://briannamarielifestyle.com/

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  48. jusbnicole Avatar
    jusbnicole

    This is helpful and encouraging. I’m trying to become more consistent with blogging. I like the part about it being genuine. I strive for that and hope it is shown through my writing as well.

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  49. BeingBeckyy Avatar
    BeingBeckyy

    Firstly, I spent half of the post waiting for a cat GIF as soon as you mentioned one, which partly kept me reading on.
    Secondly, I can’t believe how much I love this post. My first attempt at blogging failed so bad because I just didn’t try. I wasn’t speaking to other bloggers, I didn’t even really read other blogs but I’m so glad that this time around I’ve hopefully started doing the right thing as well as blogging for myself, rather then others.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Hahah yes I just had to make sure I threw in at least one cat gif!!
      I’m so glad you loved it!! And absolutely happy to help and share what I’ve learned. It took such a long time to figure out what I was doing wrong – I wish someone had set me on the right path straight away!
      Reading and visiting other blogs has definitely been the key for me. I don’t always have time to visit everyone, but I think as long as you try your best 🙂 On that, I wish I could be a full-time blogger!!

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  50. agirlinsweats Avatar
    agirlinsweats

    Thank you for the tips! I can’t wait to implement these!

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  51. KatieArtista Avatar

    This was super helpful to someone who has just started their blog not a week ago!! Was on the fence about writing a post about my cats shenanigans and if anybody would find it amusing and now I think I’ll go for it! Thanks!!!
    -Katie

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      You’re so new, how exciting! I hope you have a wonderful time here and everyone treats you well – good luck and write that cat post!!

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  52. Cameron D Hamilton Avatar

    You always provide such great advice. So kind and inviting, encouraging everyone including yourself to strive for more

    I’m sure I’m one of the ones who stumbled into finding your blog from the cats… but they are pretty hilarious.

    This is a really great post to read… it confirms alot of simple but telly effective techniques that I’ve been a tad remiss with.
    I’m really glad you wrote this and I hope many others besides me get a little jolt of aspiration and inspiration from this!!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you!! Honestly, it makes such a big difference that everyone here on WordPress, like you, is so damn lovely! And of course, I have the cats to thank!!

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      1. Cameron D Hamilton Avatar

        It’s certainly one of the best online communities…So many are toxic but here it’s full of encouragement.

        The cats are but a footnote… adorable and hilarious but nothing compared to the talent of the writer.
        I still like them though 😄

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  53. Fierce And Fetching Avatar

    First of all, I LOVE wine, second, I want to thank you for sharing these amazing tips and mentioning cats.
    You go Milly!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Yay, a wine friend!! If you ever want to catch up over a virtual wine, let me know!! 🙂 Thanks so much for the encouragement by the way, don’t know what I’d do without it 🙂

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  54. authorwilliammangieri Avatar

    Yes, there is (unfortunately) no good way to force a following – thanx for the good advice, and congratulations on your success.

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  55. Cameron Graham Avatar

    I can’t tell you how helpful and inspiring this is! Making a blog was so stressful for me as a newbie and your blog has been a constant source of inspiration and encouragement – thank you so much for this!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Wow thank you so much!! It can get very stressful, feel free to contact me if you ever want any tips! 🙂

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      1. Cameron Graham Avatar

        Thank you, I definitely will!

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  56. Silverio Avatar
    Silverio

    Thanks for sharing this learning experience in this funny way.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      No problem 🙂 🙂

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  57. mariemclean Avatar

    Don’t get me started on the follow/unfollow types. Grrr. At least I can usually spot them by now, but they still continue to surprise me.
    Congratulations on building a successful blog – it takes a LOT of hard work!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks Marie!! Oh my goodness, those social media sharks continue to surprise me to this day as well! Honestly, the nerve they have!! hahaha.

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  58. teddythedogtalks Avatar

    Thanks but no thanks. Ted and I prefer dog gifs!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      You have cat to be kitten me right meow

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      1. teddythedogtalks Avatar

        Love the pun 💜💜💜😂

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  59. Anthony Avatar

    I definitely think you deserve, for being authentic if nothing else. I have enjoyed your writing (the play review come to mind most) and I have appreciated your comments on my blog.
    Keep up the good work.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you! I always feel bad when I feel myself slipping into the ‘unauthentic’ side, and it’s happened a few more times than I’d like to admit. Thanks for mentioning the review, I think it was less popular for being a review and location specific, so it’s so nice to hear that someone enjoyed it 🙂

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  60. Deborah Makarios Avatar

    Social-climbing piranha. Lol!
    I used to have a lot of inactive followers (i.e. ones who didn’t read, let alone comment) but I got rid of them all by moving to my new site. And now I have practically no followers! I think. New site, tricky technology…

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Hahah glad you liked that line! It started off as ‘pariah’ – and then I was like mmmm that doesn’t quite work. I think a lot of my followers are inactive on Instagram, but oh well 🙂 I’m sure you’ll build a following quite soon!!

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  61. Shirley Harris-Slaughter Avatar
    Shirley Harris-Slaughter

    I like your topic Beem, because I learned something from it. I’m going to go back and read it again.

    Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks so much for stopping by 🙂

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      1. Shirley Harris-Slaughter Avatar
        Shirley Harris-Slaughter

        Hi Millie. Nice to meet you. I was on my smartphone and didn’t notice that your post was reblogged by my dear friend Beem.

        Sometimes we are meant to meet.

        Thank you so much for following my blog.

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        1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

          This is so true, somethings are meant to be 🙂 I noticed Beem had reblogged so had a feeling that’s who you meant 🙂

          Like

  62. synapticboomstick Avatar

    Aw geez, my cat loved the Bed-Toss game. XD
    My issue is that I find super-massive black holes too awesome to stay away from.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Hahah really? My cat plays fetch, but I haven’t tried the bed-toss game before! Supermassive black holes are amazingly interesting 😀

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      1. synapticboomstick Avatar

        Even for a cat she was especially weird. The kitten I currently have likes to take her Mr. Bill toy and throw it into the air and then juggle it as many times as she can until it hits the floor.

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        1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

          There are definitely normal cats and then there are the ‘special’ ones. My first rescue cat was what I’d call normal, but sadly he went missing when I accidentally left him outside overnight during a storm (I hated myself for it). My new rescue cat plays fetch, opens doors, watches TV, pats my face in the morning when he wants to toilet outside, stares at me like a dog when I’m eating… just… yeah. I’ve never had a cat like him. He didn’t even attack the christmas tree last year!! Sometimes he looks at me and I feel like he knows that I’m a human o_0

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  63. esonder Avatar
    esonder

    Wine, lots of wine. Haha

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      My thoughts, all the time 🙂 🙂

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  64. kimc91 Avatar

    Your blogs are always fun. I like that. I’m fairly new I have no idea about the tags or anything. This is useful, (not that I know how to do that lol)

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Oh you’re a newbie!! How exciting 🙂 🙂 I wish someone had told me about tags earlier on. You’ll figure it out, I mean if I did, anyone can!!

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  65. Lucero Avatar
    Lucero

    You have great advice! You started a blog and here you are with thousands of followers. That’s awesome. You’ve put in the work and used your genuine self to get this far.

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks! Sometimes I’m surprised I got this far, so it was fun trying to figure out why 🙂 I have a lot to thank for ‘all the cats’ of course hahah

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  66. beemweeks Avatar

    Reblogged this on The Indie Spot! and commented:
    An interesting post from Milly Schmidt’s blog.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thanks for the reblog 🙂 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

      1. beemweeks Avatar

        My pleasure, Milly!

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  67. Christina @ The Bookshelf Corner Avatar
    Christina @ The Bookshelf Corner

    A truth the world needs to hear: cat gifs are hilarious!

    Of course, great post! 🙂

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Exactly right? My blog would be nowhere without the hilarity of cats hahaha.

      And thanks!! 🙂 🙂

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  68. CelesteMiller Avatar
    CelesteMiller

    Oooh, nice! Incredibly useful, especially for one such as myself who just recently celebrated hitting 2 whole subscribers 😛 ahaha thanks for being number 2, by the way; know that you triggered an early morning victory dance, on my way to work. Definitely need to get myself browsing around more, and making good use of these tips!

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Number 2!! You’ve got to be kidding. I feel so priviliged 🙂 Browsing around works wonders!! You’d be surprised at how many followers you can get from leaving comments on other people’s blogs 🙂

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  69. thejourneyofabook Avatar

    Hahaha cat gifs exploded hee blog thats hilarious, and yet i dont doubt it. But hey, what’s wrong with beikng a stalker 🤣😂

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Yeah it was so weird when it happened! I was like ‘where are all these likes and views coming from?? Was the cats??” It was amazing. I shoulda known.

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      1. thejourneyofabook Avatar

        Lmao that’s adorable

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  70. jacquimeg Avatar
    jacquimeg

    I was just thinking about how to grow my blog, and apart from employing the tactic of click bait, I had no idea what to do. Also thanks for following me. So sorry it’s taken me this long to follow you back ☺️

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      I never even really thought about trying click bait on my blog!! (Although I know it works really well on YouTube hahaha). I think everyone would crucify me if I did that here, but I do think it’s important to write an interesting title that will draw people in – which I suppose is clickbait in a way!

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      1. jacquimeg Avatar
        jacquimeg

        There’s a fine line between click bait and an interesting title, hey. People wouldn’t let us get away with it on here, that’s for sure.

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        1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

          Yep, they’d definitely call us out! It’s funny because when you wrote this comment I was in the process of coming up with a click baity title:

          ‘Guess who got published!?’

          Yep. Not me. Hahaha

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          1. jacquimeg Avatar
            jacquimeg

            It would have got my attention haha 😂

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  71. Leo Avatar

    Milly, I like the cut of your jib. I think you and I could hang 🙂 I’m kidding. I love this post, completely agree with everything here, engagement is so big, but its not just the act of asking someone to marry you, you really have to mean it. Go the extra mile, respond to comments, this dalliance has to be authentic.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      hahah oh god, favourite comment of the day!!!! hahahaha

      We simply must hang out.

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      1. Leo Avatar

        I literally started writing this comment and I also enjoyed it so, yeah I’ll be writing a post on engagement haha! Should be fun. We can definetly be the best of friends. Have you ever hung out with a Lion?

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        1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

          Can’t say that I have, anything I need to know? Looking forward to being besties!

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          1. Leo Avatar

            🙂 not much, just that we roar alot and listen to Katy Perry because she just gets us. But yeah, there will be alot of fawning over your posts most likely lol.

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  72. George F. Avatar

    It’s not about the blog. It’s about the book.

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Do you mean Books? Because I’m gonna write more than one hahah

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  73. Robert Varga Avatar

    Good points with a healthy amount and type of humour, I like it. But it’s of course not the first writing I liked truly. BTW, too late…I clicked on THAT link. And I am a cat person too, blessed with crazy ass Bengals. We just f love them! Before I forget, what do you think about a poll filling “task”? It’s fun, I promise. 🙂

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    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      You have bengals?? Ah gawd I want one so bad, but they cost about $1,000-$2,000 here from the registered breeders and I promised myself I’d only buy rescue pets from now on. I bet you love them – they look amazing. What do you mean by ‘poll filling task?’ lol.

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      1. Robert Varga Avatar

        I got her very little as gift more than 2 years ago. The poll is in my latest post. Our doggo is a saved dog, Mazikeen.

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      2. Robert Varga Avatar

        Hahahah, gawd, I saw it, just checked my Form…. LOL: ” More cats! “

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        1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

          Ahah thought you’d appreciate it!!

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  74. Sean M. Avatar

    Solid advice. Writing for something other than expressing your own voice never really works. It took me a minute to realize it in my own writing, but it makes a world of difference regardless of the views or followers.

    Liked by 5 people

    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Writing in your own voice makes such a big difference! I feel like everyone can tell when I’m trying to be serious or literary – it just comes off stale or forced. Being literary is just not who I am, no matter how much I wish I could be! Better to ‘write what feels right’, I say 🙂

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  75. Anne Kramer-Author Avatar

    You missed one big point that I have noticed since following your blog. Your blog is FUN!! I always enjoy them 🙂

    Liked by 10 people

    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      Thank you!! It’s fantastic to hear this – I’ve always wanted people to have fun here, but wasn’t sure if I was succeeding. In real life I’m one of those poor sods who is only funny ‘by accident’. Like, I’ll say something stupid without realising and everyone will laugh… then when I try to be funny on purpose, I just get blank looks 🙂 🙂

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  76. dragonink90 Avatar

    Of all the blogs I follow, yours is the one I read pretty much ever post of. And I think everyone appreciates a good cat gif.

    Liked by 6 people

    1. Milly Schmidt Avatar

      I always wonder if anyone reads my posts regularly – it’s so awesome to hear that you do!! Thank you so much!! 🙂 🙂

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